“They tried to measure me by how well I fit, but I was never meant to fit; I was meant to reshape the space.” Tiffany Chang’s story is not about overcoming hurdles; it's about rewriting the narrative and leading with empathy. The word power always evokes feelings of dominance and charisma, but for Tiffany, softness is all about being powerful, how you treat people, and choosing to be kind. For her, it's about leading without needing the spotlight and showing up on days when you're feeling small.

Tiffany speaks of spending a major portion of her life trying to fit into both the worlds, Asian and American, and somewhere along the way, she realized she need not try to choose between them. Her roots run deep and she credits her mom and her grandma for influencing her deeply and showing her true power need not be loud. From her mother, she learned what was truly important was to be consistent, and from her grandma, she learned resilience. Their strength was not loud, but they taught her to build her life with heart, humility, and intention.

Building With a Heart

Her stint as Miss Asia USA taught her that representation does not always require perfection. It taught her grit was not force. It was all about being grounded and she realized strength and softness go hand in hand. She recollects how they always showed up, be it in her engineering classrooms, leadership meetings, or through her nonprofit, Madhatter Knits.

There is a lot she has to unlearn. For long, Tiffany equated productivity with worth, and she always felt the need to prove herself and justify all the opportunities she had gotten. Tiffany is still learning that rest is a requirement and not a reward, and vulnerability does not make her less capable. Instead, it makes her grounded, human, and whole. She is redefining the definition of leadership, success, and womanhood, on her own terms.

Tiffany wants to build beyond what is expected from her and she is also building bridges between spaces that don’t often overlap, pageantry and tech, tradition and innovation, softness and strength. Tiffany knows the world she wants to live in. Quietly, she is planting the seeds for a life where she can be ambitious and elegant, sentimental and strategic.

For Tiffany, the understanding of how others are juggling their academic, cultural, and emotional expectations is what makes her ask questions. The questions she asks herself are different from the previous ones, and she measures success by acceptance and not applause or awards. For her, now the interest is in not what can be built, but for whom it is being built and why. She wants to create experiences, systems, and tools that empower users and not impress them.

Soft power to Chang is to lead with compassion, listen deeply, show up over and over again, and at the end of the day, the most powerful version of her is not her perfect one, but her honest one. She has rewritten the definition of success in a way that you need not be impressive or perfect to be powerful, you just need to be whole. You have to own your emotions and pick yourself up after a rejection or a bad day. “So, keep going. Keep choosing yourself. And even when the world feels too loud, know that you’re not alone. And one day, you’ll look back and realize: you were never balancing, you were becoming”, is what she strongly believes in.